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Table: Bougereau. Cupid and Psyche
LETTER:
do not know what to do with my relationship. My wife does not notice me since our son was born two months ago. I know that may sound like a jealous rage and seem ridiculous, but not that. I the baby I want is my son. It's behavior that she does not understand. Before the baby was born loving, caring, kind. It is now surly, just let me get close. It seems that escapes me, not just sexually, first with the excuse of episiotomy and then did not win, it must be something hormonal, etc. I hope I do not care, I love and I can wait, I can not stand is his temper, his cries. He has not had a single gesture of love in the past two months, maybe since the end of pregnancy and was a bit like that, but then it has gradually been getting worse What I can do? At first reacted with patience, I thought it was very recent birth, I had to give it a few days, weeks. But that has not happened. And now react aggressively to their aggressiveness, we fight all day. I was exhausted. I need help to cope with this and I know that my attitude makes things worse, but for now I can not react differently. She tells me she does not know what happens, I want and do not want to hurt me that she too exhausted to fight all day. CP
ANSWER: Hi
CP:
What happens to your wife is a not uncommon reaction after their first child. Occurs in women whose primary concern is motherhood also conceived in a very particular, as if the child were an inalienable part of themselves. When they have their first child, are dumped in care and tenderness with him, and the husband is relegated to the background. This interest child corresponds to deep unconscious desires that only psychoanalysis can be processed. Beyond
discussions and friction of these days, it seems that even the two want to keep this couple (although still have to see what she says). As indicated in this case is the psychoanalysis of couples, where you can talk about what happened to you, with a third party can hear you and intervene to help them build a new relationship, which can not be equal to what you had before you arrived child (because you are you and others) but do not have to be so aggressive. Dr. Alejandra Menassa
LETTER:
do not know what to do with my relationship. My wife does not notice me since our son was born two months ago. I know that may sound like a jealous rage and seem ridiculous, but not that. I the baby I want is my son. It's behavior that she does not understand. Before the baby was born loving, caring, kind. It is now surly, just let me get close. It seems that escapes me, not just sexually, first with the excuse of episiotomy and then did not win, it must be something hormonal, etc. I hope I do not care, I love and I can wait, I can not stand is his temper, his cries. He has not had a single gesture of love in the past two months, maybe since the end of pregnancy and was a bit like that, but then it has gradually been getting worse What I can do? At first reacted with patience, I thought it was very recent birth, I had to give it a few days, weeks. But that has not happened. And now react aggressively to their aggressiveness, we fight all day. I was exhausted. I need help to cope with this and I know that my attitude makes things worse, but for now I can not react differently. She tells me she does not know what happens, I want and do not want to hurt me that she too exhausted to fight all day. CP
ANSWER: Hi
CP:
What happens to your wife is a not uncommon reaction after their first child. Occurs in women whose primary concern is motherhood also conceived in a very particular, as if the child were an inalienable part of themselves. When they have their first child, are dumped in care and tenderness with him, and the husband is relegated to the background. This interest child corresponds to deep unconscious desires that only psychoanalysis can be processed. Beyond
discussions and friction of these days, it seems that even the two want to keep this couple (although still have to see what she says). As indicated in this case is the psychoanalysis of couples, where you can talk about what happened to you, with a third party can hear you and intervene to help them build a new relationship, which can not be equal to what you had before you arrived child (because you are you and others) but do not have to be so aggressive. Dr. Alejandra Menassa
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