Adam and Eve expelled from paradise. Alexander Cabanel
In my column in The Free Thinker: Queries to the psychoanalyst, which answers the query letters from readers:
Hello Doctor: I want to separate, and not take it anymore. It is for her family (I guess because I'm telling you, she'd say it's for my family). I love her, really, but when I married her in the lot had been the family, and I did not have this before we married. At Christmas and holidays, is a continuous fight, when a match celebrations and other family, she always wants to go to his. If my family does something, his family always do better. His brother case makes it to me. The decisions we should make together, taking it with their parents. I can not stand it anymore, love has its limits. On the other hand, I hardly think life without it, we've been together 9 years, I repeat that I love, and we have a son, I will not hurt. What to do? Hello
CM CM: That you mention is one of the most common problems in couples. Everyone wants to show that his family is better than the other. They become advocates of the ideology of the ancient family, and therefore rivals. We are very narcissistic, each family always looks best. Maybe if
Your family may think now you are your wife and child, not the family you came from. If you leave the competition with your wife, and were to take as a partner and not as a rival. Giving up this dialectic of losers or winners. I wonder how this is done. To do this, psychoanalysis is an effective and feasible.
Regards, Dr. Alejandra Menassa
CM
Hello Doctor: I want to separate, and not take it anymore. It is for her family (I guess because I'm telling you, she'd say it's for my family). I love her, really, but when I married her in the lot had been the family, and I did not have this before we married. At Christmas and holidays, is a continuous fight, when a match celebrations and other family, she always wants to go to his. If my family does something, his family always do better. His brother case makes it to me. The decisions we should make together, taking it with their parents. I can not stand it anymore, love has its limits. On the other hand, I hardly think life without it, we've been together 9 years, I repeat that I love, and we have a son, I will not hurt. What to do? Hello
CM CM: That you mention is one of the most common problems in couples. Everyone wants to show that his family is better than the other. They become advocates of the ideology of the ancient family, and therefore rivals. We are very narcissistic, each family always looks best. Maybe if
Your family may think now you are your wife and child, not the family you came from. If you leave the competition with your wife, and were to take as a partner and not as a rival. Giving up this dialectic of losers or winners. I wonder how this is done. To do this, psychoanalysis is an effective and feasible.
Regards, Dr. Alejandra Menassa
CM
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